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planning

Unread postPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2021 9:42 pm
by dsteve
I find that planning and anticipating a session is almost as much fun as the session itself. Once I know I am going to have some private time I always start thinking. What am I going to wear, what am I going to use, what position will I be in, and what kind of release?
So, does anyone just grab a pile of rope and start, or is planning a more-or-less universal thing? And, do you enjoy the planning as much as I do.

Re: planning

Unread postPosted: Mon Jan 11, 2021 10:27 pm
by naelasa
I don't really plan, I just go with my fancy at the time for a few hours before letting myself go again heh.

Re: planning

Unread postPosted: Tue Jan 12, 2021 5:23 am
by Karren
Being an engineer... I plan everything to the Nth degree.... it's what we do! lol

Re: planning

Unread postPosted: Thu Jan 14, 2021 3:11 pm
by Stahlketten
Sometimes you can plan whatever you want but unless you are playing alone, things may not work out if other participants change THEIR plans or plans become overtaken by events which are "more important". That has happened more often than not which means most planning is more or less worthless.

Re: planning

Unread postPosted: Thu Jan 14, 2021 5:10 pm
by Tesgri
Stahlketten wrote:Sometimes you can plan whatever you want but unless you are playing alone, things may not work out if other participants change THEIR plans or plans become overtaken by events which are "more important". That has happened more often than not which means most planning is more or less worthless.


I've certainly come across this a lot. Especially when you don't want to try and implement your plans on top of your dom's.

Re: planning

Unread postPosted: Fri Jan 15, 2021 5:53 pm
by lotharj
Self bondage planning is very exciting for me as well.

When I am alone I can spend hours researching rope techniques and thinking about stages of release. Kinda a fun hobby and arousing at the same time.

My Dom is sometimes very impressed with different things and they learn from my self bondage adventures.

Although I have on occasion gotten a huge pile of rope, messed it up, and started plunging my hands and feet into it randomly looping loose coils around everything I can until I can't move. I have actually been stuck like this one and was forced to use my safety release.