[quote="restricted"]Just imagine you have met somone on line to be your keyholder. Same sex as you. You make an agreement to be locked in a secure steel chastity belt only to find the keysholder has moved and changed his / her mind about releasing you. (You still have the e-mail address). The kleyholder has so much fun thinking about you being locked up and never having sex, their libido has gone through the roof so they've decided to leave you locked up until they think you can be released.
Now the question is, would you eventually start swearing at the keyholder and risk them destroying the key or would you be forever sending begging e-mails and try to be as pleasant as you can?[/quote]
I'm going to assume -- although it's not stated -- that the device cannot be removed without the key. Otherwise the solution would be easy as others have stated; find a locksmith that won't die of laughter. But to make things interesting, I'll answer with that assumption in mind.
I'm curious about one thing though. Is there a particular reason the key holder is the same sex as the wearer? I'm not opposed to either gender, as I've handed over keys to both, but I'm wondering if there is a certain reason for that part of the scenario.
To answer the question, I would first see if we still had open communication. He could potentially block/ignore my emails if I get too annoying for him to deal with at the start. Unless he gets off on my begging or cussing him out, and simply reads them to relish in his own power over me.
If I can be sure that begging does not annoy him, or he likes it, then eventually I would beg for my release. If no amount of begging will get me released, then I will thank him for locking me, as it is what I submitted myself to, and would tell him that I'll patiently wait to see if he ever thinks I'm worthy to be released.
I would never start swearing at him, or try to offend him. It would really accomplish nothing in the scheme of things. If he were to destroy my key, that would leave no hope of release. He could always choose to do that without me swearing at him, but at least then I wouldn't be forcing his hand.
I've personally fantasized about this scenario. Being locked by a male or female, perhaps a close friend, and then they basically ignore the issue entirely. I'd be locked indefinitely, needing the key to be free, but they act as though they never locked me or took my key. I always wondered how long it would take for me to give up on getting the key back. So far it's only a fantasy.
Dani
