The Bound Forum

I don't understand what your question is. Are you asking the group if we think it is okay to watch porn in general? Or are you asking if you specifically should be allowed to do something? Many people consider porn to be degrading and exploitive to women. The feeling is that by watching the porn you...

There certainly are some, I have met several. With respect to all people, my experience has shown that it is a relatively small percentage are into BDSM at all. There is a small percentage of that small percentage that are interested in taking the dominant role. An even smaller subset are dominant w...

1) apply a lot of sun screen
2) apply insect repellant.

R.Mc.

How long would you like for this torment to go on? I am not fully understanding the bondage horse bench. Are your feet on the floor or are they up on platforms? More important, are your cock and balls dangling freely, or are they trapped beneath you? I also don't understand the "mouthpiece"...

I will start a story, and then work on it for years! I may get the story basically told in a reasonable amount of time, but I will keep going back and tweaking it. No matter how many times I have edited a story I will always find a typo or poorly phrased section, especially if I haven't read it over...

Welcome!

Where do you do the Cam ?

R.Mc.

There has been a few times that my wife did this as a form of punishment. Some people will have the TV on just as background noise, but for me, the TV demands my attention. When we go to a restaurant that has a TV playing, even with the sound off, I will try to take a seat where I can't see the TV, ...

KnottyGirl: Yes, I would love to see pictures of your breast harness! I am sure we all would. If you would like to get some ideas for self bondage, give us some information so we know what we have to work with. Do you live alone, or do you have roommates? Do you live in a house, condo, apartment, ??...

What about something with a castle dungeon motif? You know: stone walls, torches on the wall, twisting steps leading down to the below ground space, lots of chains and shackles hanging from the walls. And, if underground, would not upset the neighbors. I wonder what the county building department w...

If I won a billion dollars in the lottery . . . I think I would buy a couple of properties to use as BDSM play spaces. One would be in the city close to where I would be living. Perhaps an old Victorian, something with a large basement! I would have it set up as a BDSM dungeon and then have regular ...

Was it difficult to stay 2 hours in the fetal position? I am fairly flexible in that direction. I can't do the splits and all I can manage is to touch my toes when bending at the waist, but I can fold my legs up tight to my butt. I frequently will sit on my heels when working on something on the fl...

I have locked myself in a cage as selfbondage. It was a medium sized dog kennel, not large enough to stretch out, I had to stay in a fetal position. A simple combination padlock to keep me securely in place (I had zip-tied all the rods that would collapse the cage if removed). The room was dark with...

There are a couple real simple release mechanisms that will provide the thrill of being inescapable. One is to throw some ice cubes into a sack, then tie a cord to the neck of the sack and pass it and the neck of the bag through a steel ring. The bulk of the ice cubes will keep the rest of the bag f...

It would be feasible to make something. You need to get or make a dildo that has a hollow tube running through it. The back of the dildo will have a hose attached that will lead to a vacuum switch. In addition to the hole at the tip of the dildo there will be one near the base. The idea is that the ...

Well, first idea that came to mind was a monetary forfeit, but after a moments reflection I thought better of that. It would not do good to have your pro Domme profit by pushing you beyond your limits. A second safeword is fairly common: Yellow means you are getting close, Red means stop uncondition...

I have only a couple of experiences with a humbler, and those were relatively brief. I am sure that everyone's experiences will vary, at least a little, mainly dependent upon how "low hung" you are. I have seen pictures of guys who have stretched their balls out so far that I am sure that ...

Be wary of residual magnetism. When the electric current in the electro-magnet shuts off, it is common for the system to retain a bit of magnetism. It will be weak, but it could continue to hold a key indefinitely. Be sure to test this setup multiple times. One way that you can dramatically decrease...

I have had very poor results using X-10. I am surprised that system still exists. There are lots of options for remote control of lights and/or electrical outlets/plugs. For example, I can as Siri to turn my porch lights on from anywhere. I have WiFi connected plug switches that I can turn on using ...

I wish I had spotted this thread a month earlier!

I do enjoy online domination, either by email exchange or video chat. I have had a few partners that I dominated for months.

If you ever have the need to do this again, I would be happy to oblige

R. Mc.

I used to be all submissive, but then I discovered that it was a lot easier to find a submissive than a domme.

I do prefer to have one role per partner. There are those I dominate, and those I submit to, but I don't swap roles with a single partner.

R. Mc.