Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.

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Are there any Bondage "Switches?" I think I might be one.

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Dear people on here, is it common to enjoy both tying up others as well as getting tied up yourself? I definitely lean much more to Rigger, but I've thought about getting tied up from time to time and have enjoyed thinking about that. Is this something some of you feel, or is this not that common? Thanks!
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Oh yes, I'm also a switch. I'm very happily married but my wife isn't into this so it's self bondage for me when I can and, sadly, I've never had the chance to tie up a girl or be tied up by one but I dream of both.
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I think most of us are to some extent 'Switches, but it is much easier to get tied up, or bind yourself, than it is to find a willing captive.
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I'm definitely a switch. I love to be tied up and don't have much preference on how. The "dom" side of me doesn't really enjoy having power or control over someone else. It's more the creative aspect of trying to come up with something new or especially something my sub would enjoy.
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I can switch but I prefer not to. Subby all the way.

But sometimes I gotta top if I'm teaching my wife a new rope tie I learned.

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im guess im a 'switches' too. actually i dont know of this term before.

im prefer to get tied up or tied up people both. but now has no partner so selfbondage all the way.

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I'm a guy. I like being in bondage. I get turned on by videos of girls in bondage, but not guys. I guess to a certain extent I'm a switch.

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definitely a switch. I would like to know what the proportions are in the general population. That is:
what proportion of males fantasize about being a dom, sub, switch
what proportion of females do the same.
My believe, from being in chat sites, is that most men are doms and a few are subs and also a few are switches, with the proportions reversed for women. Although, these a role playing fantasies, so I suspect the relation to real life is tenuous at best.
In my own life, I would hate to give up either role, but think I could live without tying up a woman with less regret than living without ever being tied. I guess that makes me mostly a sub.
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I think I lean both ways as I enjoyed just as much when I used to tie up my ex as when I do it to myself

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gaggedutopia wrote: 30 May 2021, 06:58 I'm definitely a switch. I love to be tied up and don't have much preference on how. The "dom" side of me doesn't really enjoy having power or control over someone else. It's more the creative aspect of trying to come up with something new or especially something my sub would enjoy.

Wow almost describes me perfectly! In terms of bondage I like the idea of both being bound and tying someone else. However I don't really 'switch' the D/s side of me. I will always be a sub, even if I am in physical control. It is like how a rigger or bunny doesn't have to involve in D/s and S/M. Maybe I would describe us as a submissive who switches between a bunny and a rigger.

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