30 days slave and 1 choice

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simoxp43
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30 days slave and 1 choice

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Imagine that you have received a huge inheritance and no longer have to work. Your wife offers you to be her slave 24/7 for 30 days and she offers you these choices.
All the other details of what to do when you are home will be discussed following your choice.
What will you choose?


Type 1 - 15 days as following + 7 days travel + 8 as following
Hours tied per day (A): 22
Hours at home without restraints: 0
Free exit hours allowed per day: 2 (from 6 am to 8 am)

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Type 2 - 15 days as following + 5 days travel + 10 as following
Hours tied per day (B): 20
Hours at home without restraints: 2
Free exit hours allowed per day: 2 (from 6 am to 8 am)

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Type 3 - 15 days as following + 3 days travel + 12 as following
Hours tied per day (C): 18
Hours at home without restraints: 4
Free exit hours allowed per day: 2 (from 8 am to 10 am)

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Type 4 - 30 days as following:
Hours tied per day (D): 4
Hours at home without restraints: 16
Free exit hours allowed per day: 4 (from 8 am to 12 am)


Restraints type:
A: handcuffs + anklets + waist band. During the night only handcuffs and anklets.
B: handcuffs + anklets. Collar with 2 meter chain fixed to the wall for 2 hours a day
C: handcuffs + anklets. Collar with 2 meter chain fixed to the wall for 4 hours a day
D: handcuffs + anklets + collar connected to hands and feet.

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Re: 30 days slave and 1 choice

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My fantasy would be types 1 through 3, but the reality of the situation(for me) dictates a variation between 4 and 3. My wife has kept me bound, gagged, and blindfolded for more than six hours during the evening before, and has "forced" me to sleep tied up, gagged, and blindfolded as well. I feel like, even with 3, having THAT little freedom would grow old, after a while. Don't get me wrong; I'd be excited about it, at first. That might last well into the second week, even. After that, I feel like it would begin to be a problem.

However, four, six, or even eight hours a day would be awesome.

As to the restraint types, I don't care for metal handcuffs at all. My list of restraints would be a bit more varied. ;) Plus, I like my bondage to be much more restrictive.

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Re: 30 days slave and 1 choice

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I think I would choose the type 1 just for the 7 day trip that breaks up the weeks.
boundBinder wrote: 21 Nov 2023, 14:11 As to the restraint types, I don't care for metal handcuffs at all. My list of restraints would be a bit more varied. ;) Plus, I like my bondage to be much more restrictive.
I like restrictive bondage but for prolonged periods and where maybe you have to do almost everything at home it is better to have as few restrictions as possible

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I think I like type 1 best, but I would also add

A) some cell or cage time - I have no obligations anymore right?
B) every month end I'm offered a choice (if she still wants to play) to be freed or to double the sentence

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lockedup4eva wrote: 24 Nov 2023, 01:54 I think I like type 1 best, but I would also add

A) some cell or cage time - I have no obligations anymore right?
cage time sounds good, maybe I will have some time to do house chore and then cage until next day. This may be a great addition to the type 1

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Re: 30 days slave and 1 choice

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If it were my choice, I think I'd go with Type 1 (though I lack the experience with long term bondage to know if it would actually be a good fit for me).

In my mind, the reason to do long term bondage is to simulate long term captivity (e.g., a roleplay in which I've been kidnapped or enslaved). Consequently, I'd want to be under some level of restraint at all times while in the house in which I'm being held captive. The 2 hours breaks outside of the house would serve as a break from the fantasy as a whole; being allowed to run around free in the house would break the illusion of the roleplay in my opinion.

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Re: 30 days slave and 1 choice

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I believe that a prolonged bondage experience for several days in a cell is really difficult.
The best thing to simulate a kidnapping in my opinion requires an isolated house where you can remain chained (even outside) for an indefinite time

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Yes, I would agree with that. Although (in the UK at least) cellars tend to be very solid and if the building has concrete floors rather than timber, would be pretty sound proof too. I've often imagined being chained ito a solid wall in a cell within a cellar, steel cuffs, collar and belt of course.

A cell would be easy to construct in a corner, needing only two sides, one of which could be the door.

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I like the idea of multiple days, but could we add other restraints? Strait jacket? ropes?. I think I could last in a strait jacket for many hours and maybe days. I have not tried but am willing to give it a go. I have been tied with ropes in positions that could be endured for several hours at least.
Sorry if this is changing the focus of your thread.

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dsteve wrote: 21 Dec 2023, 19:58 Sorry if this is changing the focus of your thread.
All ideas are welcome! ;)

I think that a straitjacket is difficult to wear for many hours, I've never tried but maybe someone in the forum can tell us how many hours it lasted.

Ropes are a good substitute to even allow just some movements: my girlfriend, however, prefers the sound of chains so we practically always used those

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A straight jacket is fine for longterm wear if it's canvas, as that's breathable. Heck, they are designed for longterm medical restraint after all.

Rope however can tighten over time even if the bondage is done by an experienced rigger and the last thing any of us needs is a DVT.

So surely the absolute best long term (and I mean really, really long term - yum) is neoprene lined leather cuffs, obviously padlocked on and joined by chain or bars. They won't damage nerves like metal or blood supply like rope, and can be applied to several areas of all limbs, and the waist, and (if careful - though probably not for abandonment) the collar too.

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Re: 30 days slave and 1 choice

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you're right, straight jackets are also medical devices so they shouldn't cause any problems with long term.

it all depends on what the mistress/master wants: personally (as slave) I prefer to wear handcuffs and anklets connected with chains because I can still slightly move.

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