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Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 24 Sep 2021, 16:54
by wildcard
Just a quick story about how I ended up with some female clothing. I really never and probably still don't considered myself a crossdresser. For a few years now I have worn men's bikini and thong swimsuits and thong underwear. During then my wife and I have experimented with me wearing women's panties, just solid color black or blue. Not to mention they we 1/3 of the cost and readily available. My collection of men's spandex tights, bodysuit and thong leotards had expanded and would wear them running or under my clothes in the winter months. My underwear collection is about 50/50 men's and women's thong and that is it no tighty whites, boxers or briefs.

One of my female friends actually gave me a pair of her panties and said it your wife finds them I would be in divorce court. Even though there is nothing sexual about our relationship. I told her they were tucked away in my sock draw. Not too long ago I was in a major car accident with 2 broken hips,ribs and a lot of other things. I could not walk or get dressed by myself for 12 weeks. After 3 weeks in the hospital I arrived home to find all my clothes rearranged so my wife could dress me simply. Low and behold my friend's panties in my underwear pile. Now my friend had no clue I had worn women's underwear for years and I told her my wife found her underwear. She was horrified and ask what my wife said. I told my friend I admitted to my wife I wore women's underwear and she buys them for me. So friend thinks because of her I have to wear panties now to keep the lie going. When the doctors had to reconstruct my hips they cut me open front and back and I have about 4 feet scars. Well the front incision is a couple inches below the waistline and the back is at and above. So trying to wear even lowrise jeans irritated the incisions and I mostly wore sweatpants. We had to go out while I was recovering and wearing sweatpants was not going to work. My wife came home with a few pairs of women's super lowrise jeans that had about a 6" or 7" rise that worked out. She said nobody will know they are women's jeans because they look like plain Levis. Needless to say my wife would dress my women's thongs and superlow jeans to go out.

Does this mean I'm a closet crossdresser? :lol:

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 01 Jan 2022, 22:43
by wildcard
For Christmas my wife normally buys my male swimsuits (bikinis and thongs). This year she decided to buy me a couple pairs of women's thong underwear and suspender (crotchless) tights. It was a nice surprise.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 03 Jan 2022, 01:09
by RAE123
I have been wearing Woman's Jeans for over 12 years now. they are the only type
i have. they fit better than men's jeans and cost lest.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 05 Jan 2022, 20:45
by JaniceNoyb
I wear women's panties almost all the time; women's vest/camisole/bra-lette most of the time in winter when wearing heavier shirts. Normally wear opaque trouser socks instead of men's socks, especially with dress shoes. Haven't tried women's shoes, pants, or shirts when out in boy mode except for stuff that's pretty unisex like clogs.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 22 Jan 2022, 17:17
by wildcard
The other day at work, I was having a rough day trying to figure out how to meet a deadline. My friend stopped by and we went to grab a coffee. Figuring it might give me a moment away from the PC, but I still was thinking about the deadlines. As we were talking, I snapped at her. She said "Are your panties in a bunch" I just started laughing.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 23 Jan 2022, 15:33
by JaniceNoyb
I would have told you to "Put on your big girl panties and deal with it". :-) Happy New Year Windcard!

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 29 Jan 2022, 17:16
by wildcard
JaniceNoyb wrote: 23 Jan 2022, 15:33 I would have told you to "Put on your big girl panties and deal with it". :-) Happy New Year Windcard!
Yesterday at work we were just hanging out drinking coffee and my friend asked me if I was still caged and wearing panties. I told her it is none of her business. She put on her pouty face, stood up leaned over and pat my crotch and said I thought so, what color thong do you have on? I said blue just so she would lower her voice. I reminded her it's her fault why my wife thinks I like to wear thong panties. I said if you gave me a pair briefs instead of thongs I wouldn't be wearing women's thongs. She looked right at me and said wait until you see the next pair you are going to wear. She was referring to the pastel grannies I gave her as a gag gift for her 40th birthday. I said those would stick out of my pants and she replied I know.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 19 Mar 2022, 15:32
by wildcard
Earlier in the day while at work I text the wife and ask what was for dinner, just more of less conversation. I get back " You are taking me out tonight" I didn't much of it, and when I got home I jumped in the shower. When I walked into the bedroom to get changed, I see my clothes laid out, Golf shirt, low rise jeans, a pair of black thong panties and a package of crotchless tights. My wife was just standing there smirking at me and waiting for me to get dressed and asked if I needed help. We went out to dinner and then to a casino for a great night out. Though out the night she would remind me of my undergarments and one point said "who is slutty tonight" I just had to laugh.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 24 Mar 2022, 20:45
by JaniceNoyb
Were you on “time out” that evening?

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 26 Mar 2022, 20:04
by wildcard
JaniceNoyb wrote: 24 Mar 2022, 20:45 Were you on “time out” that evening?

I actually was not in time out that night.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 26 Mar 2022, 20:20
by wildcard
I showed my friend a picture of my packages of new crotchless tights. She said she never knew they existed, and I asked her if she wanted a pair. She said maybe later. It's kind of funny being able to talked to another female that isn't your wife about panties and tights. My friend truly believes because of her I wear panties.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 22 Jul 2022, 13:21
by wildcard
wildcard wrote: 24 Sep 2021, 16:54 Just a quick story about how I ended up with some female clothing. I really never and probably still don't considered myself a crossdresser. For a few years now I have worn men's bikini and thong swimsuits and thong underwear. During then my wife and I have experimented with me wearing women's panties, just solid color black or blue. Not to mention they we 1/3 of the cost and readily available. My collection of men's spandex tights, bodysuit and thong leotards had expanded and would wear them running or under my clothes in the winter months. My underwear collection is about 50/50 men's and women's thong and that is it no tighty whites, boxers or briefs.

One of my female friends actually gave me a pair of her panties and said it your wife finds them I would be in divorce court. Even though there is nothing sexual about our relationship. I told her they were tucked away in my sock draw. Not too long ago I was in a major car accident with 2 broken hips,ribs and a lot of other things. I could not walk or get dressed by myself for 12 weeks. After 3 weeks in the hospital I arrived home to find all my clothes rearranged so my wife could dress me simply. Low and behold my friend's panties in my underwear pile. Now my friend had no clue I had worn women's underwear for years and I told her my wife found her underwear. She was horrified and ask what my wife said. I told my friend I admitted to my wife I wore women's underwear and she buys them for me. So friend thinks because of her I have to wear panties now to keep the lie going. When the doctors had to reconstruct my hips they cut me open front and back and I have about 4 feet scars. Well the front incision is a couple inches below the waistline and the back is at and above. So trying to wear even lowrise jeans irritated the incisions and I mostly wore sweatpants. We had to go out while I was recovering and wearing sweatpants was not going to work. My wife came home with a few pairs of women's super lowrise jeans that had about a 6" or 7" rise that worked out. She said nobody will know they are women's jeans because they look like plain Levis. Needless to say my wife would dress my women's thongs and superlow jeans to go out.

Does this mean I'm a closet crossdresser? :lol:

If you have read my story, my work friend thinks because she has given me her panties it's because of her I wear them.

I read a joke and substituted details to fit my lifestyle and told my work friend. but in a serious manner.

Yesterday while having coffee with my work friend I leaned over to her and said " Do you want to go to the storage room?"
She asked " Why" I said " Because I want to rip your panties off" She looked at me with a kind of shocked look and said "OK? I said "Good because they have been giving me a wedge?" She though about it for a seconded and busted out laughing and asked " Are you wearing my panties today?" I said " No" and had to prove it.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 03 Aug 2022, 16:16
by JaniceNoyb
Hmmm... I never even thought about wearing women's jeans or pants....until now...

I've only had two lady friends I could talk with about clothing and stuff. After going to a few too many Halloween parties in drag, they figured it out. It was really fun to discuss it with them, but we never went farther than talking

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 15 Oct 2022, 19:09
by wildcard
My friend and I were sitting in the cafe drinking coffee and just talking about weekend plans. I told her my wife and I are going out to dinner and to the casino. Out of the blue she asked if I was going to wear my slutty tights underneath. It kind of caught me off guard. She said lift my pant leg up, I did and showed her my plain white socks, and she said higher. I did until you could see my bare leg. I asked what was that for. She wanted to know if I was wearing tights to work and then asked me if I ever have. Our conversation went from weekend activities to how many pairs of women's tights and panties I own. She end our coffee break asking what color panties I was wearing.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 17 Oct 2022, 00:33
by JaniceNoyb
If I had been in your place today, I would have been in trouble. I was wearing Hanes Silky Sheer pantyhose under my suit pants when we went to church and out to lunch with friends afterwards. Boring tighty-whities under them; Hanes cotton briefs….oh….women’s briefs. Only have a couple pair of boy’s panties for when I go to the doctor or something like that.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 15 Jan 2023, 17:47
by wildcard
I was on the phone with my coworker who is out of work on disability, but returning this week. We just talking about her getting back to work and how much stuff she needs to get done. Then like most of our conversations it turns into questions about my kinks. She asked me what I got for Christmas? I said fishing stuff and clothes. She asked what kind of clothes? I said underwear and socks. She asked what kind of underwear and socks? I said none of your business laughing. We both knew where she was going with her inquires and I gave in. I said I got some new thongs and G-string panties, and crotchless tights. I thought that would stop the questions. Wrong... She asked me if my panties matched my tights giggling while asking me. I said I can't wait for our 1st coffee break when she gets back. She said well do your panties match your tights? I replied yes they all match.. I told her I'll wear them into work someday if it will make her happy. She said deal. Glad she is coming back to work.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 12 Feb 2023, 18:31
by wildcard
If you happen to of read some of my other posts, my wife is out of town for a couple weeks. After reading some post about people's kinks and yes I have a few too. Some have to hide their kinks from their partner and would like to be in the position I am in where your partner is away for a while. While my wife is gone I could wear tights, crotchless tights, panties, women's tight jeans 24/7. Truth be told while she has been gone nothing has changed. I wear the same stuff if she was or wasn't here.
I guess i'm lucky in that department. My friend at work thinks that I will run out of clean panties to wear. I told her after the 1st week I ran out of the basic blue and black thongs and now I'm into the frilly ones with bows, flowers and lace. She clearly reminded me that's what I get for taking a pair of hers and hiding them in my sock draw.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 12 Feb 2023, 18:49
by wildcard
I did tell my friend when I'm wearing a chastity cage I have to wear thong panties, because my men's thongs have a pouch and the weight of the cage is too much for long periods of time. She said "I can't imagine that weight or your panty collection because your in that thing all the time"

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 15 Feb 2023, 13:30
by JaniceNoyb
I like the women's version of Hanes "tightie whities"; simple cotton briefs. They hold everything in place nicely, with or without a cage, and they are my usual day to day panties, whether I'm wearing boy clothes or girl clothes.

Re: Crossdressing without even really knowing

Posted: 16 Feb 2023, 22:40
by wildcard
I had to go pick my wife up at the airport yesterday after work. The day before I told my coworker friend that I had to pick up my wife up. She was glad my wife was finally coming home and my cage would come off. I was telling her my wife told me to wear something slutty to pick her up. My friend said" Wear something slutty or that cage would be on forever." I said "I'm not wearing anything slutty to work to get her" We went back and forth a little bit. She said " Listen you haven't had an erection for 3 weeks" and laughed.

Well I wore a lace black lace thong with bows and black crotchless tights covering my stainless steel cage to work. At our morning coffee break she asked what I had on under my clothes. I told her nothing and she called me a lair. She used her foot and raised my pant leg and saw I was wearing tights underneath and was chuckling. She said " who is slutty today?" I did tell her I like to wear crotchless tights when wearing a cage, because when I sit to pee I don't have to pull them down. She was laughing and said I was too much for her. But commended me for listening to my wife.